September 11, 2001 started as any other day. It was a beautiful day; the
sun shined, the flowers bloomed, but it was the day that would put our country
to the test. When I first heard of the attack, Tony, I thought "well, thank
God, Tony's safe at JFK/LaGuardia Airport, and Nick is safe at Newark Airport.
Even so the news of the attacks was so upsetting to me that I left work. It
wasn't till I got home and called your house, and Marie answered, that I knew
you were missing. We prayed, called every hospital in creation, and hoped, but
ultimately had to give up all hope of seeing you again. You didn't have to go
over to Ground Zero that day, Tony, let alone go inside to direct the
evacuation effort. You were high enough in rank that you could have directed
the operation from outside, if you had chosen to. Yet, you cared enough about
your fellow man to go into that towering inferno with no regard for the danger
you put yourself in. You were always like that Tony; looking out for me and
everyone else.
I am sure that your "princess", Joyce, never dreamed
that she would be widowed at age 48. You would have been proud of her, Tony.
It was hell for her (and all of us), but she handled everything beautifully,
preparing a beautiful Memorial Mass to put your soul to rest . You would have
been proud of Marie and John too, Tony. Marie stood her ground bravely, as she
read one of the Epistles during the Mass, but you knew it was hard on her; her
voice almost breaking at points. And your sweet Johnny, at age 20, bravely
shouldering the responsibilities of the man of the house. He also did that
well, though it was as hard (if not harder) on him.
This country will
never forget that hellish day; it (and the heartache and pain that it brought)
is indelibly etched in our memory.
Likewise, the supreme sacrifice of
you and your fellow 36 Port Authority police officers will never be forgotten.
Well done, good and faithful servants. Rest in peace!
Officer Name: Inspector Anthony P. Infante, Jr. Officer City: Port
Authority of New York/New Jersey End of Watch:
09/11/01
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